Anticipation and Anxiety
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When you learn how to create more anticipation in people than you do anxiety, they will start saying yes instead of saying no, and then you will be blown away. It will seem like it is almost weightless; this is too easy. You begin to establish a setting that makes people want to accept the items you are offering them. What, then, is anxiety? If anticipation is the energy you feel when the outcome you expect is desirable to you, anxiety, therefore, is wasting present energy on a future outcome that you do not want.
Permit me to reiterate that being anxious is a waste of your energy, as it causes you to focus on a future that you do not want. So, you end up expecting something you do not want to happen. And, because you are expecting a negative outcome, you have a physical reaction in your body. That physical reaction feels, smells, looks, and tastes like fear, but it is not fear. How can you be sure it is not fear? Because fear is caution over a real and present danger. There can be no fear if there is no real and present danger. If you are playing golf in the Forest of Arden, and if you hit your golf ball close to a snake in the bushes, I suggest you let the snake keep the ball.
Do Not Give In To Fear.
Because of this, when you worry about something or experience anxiety (same thing, different words), it robs you of the energy to take the correct action needed to keep the negative thing from happening. That snake is a genuine and present danger. But if you are getting ready to make a sales call and you are worried that they might say no, you need to conclude the deal because you need to save your job. Since you have not fulfilled your quota for the week, that is anxiety, not fear. Because you are imagining a future scenario that makes you feel a certain way in the present.
It saps your willpower to take action to prevent the undesirable scenario from happening. Have you ever wondered why people’s worries tend to manifest into reality? Anxiety is wasting present energy on a future outcome that is adverse to you; I advise you against it. You claim to have a procrastination problem. No, you are just expecting the thing you are putting off to do the opposite of what you want it to do. So, you do not do it. But if you can paint a clear mental picture of the outcome you want as a direct result of the thing you need to do; and you can see that as the outcome,
it will happen if you can convince yourself in your heart of hearts that you will take every action in that direction.
Creating The Right Environment
Serene Environment
There is no such thing as an author with writer’s block. There is just an author who expects the book not to sell. If you thought, you were going to sell a million copies next week you complete that book tonight. See, it does not matter what you apply it to, it always works. If your children believe that their lives will get better; as a direct result of doing what you desire them to do for their benefit, not yours; then cleaning their rooms is easy. All you have to do is to give them a reason that makes sense to them and it will cause them to feel like doing it. Therefore, what happens is that as you begin to focus on your thoughts, those thoughts cause a feeling in your heart; when that feeling is anticipation, it gives you energy; when it is anxiety, it dampens it.
Finally, the feeling in your heart spreads to your hands, and the feeling in your head the feeling in your heart creates a function in your hands. And the function in your hands when you focus on the outcome you want and have faith that gives you anticipation is called power. You not only have the energy and power to do the thing, but it is also impossible for you not to do the thing; when you have anticipation, you get a bad case of “I can’t help myself.” Have you ever had a bad case where you could not help yourself? As a result, you have arrived at the point where you are looking at this fact; and focusing on the positive aspect of the fact and you are manufacturing faith. It is making its way down into your heart, building up all this anticipation, and now you cannot do anything.
But the work that is in front of you; you will not distract yourself by watching a football game, or a basketball game. You are not going to fall asleep watching other people in the electronic income reducer live their dreams; while you live your nightmare. Instead, you will start working on the thing that you know will help you, and you will know it will help because you will make it work. Lastly, if your heart is filled with anxiety, your actions will reflect that feeling of helplessness.
How To Be An Influence On Your Generation.
Be An Influencer
And when you live a life of hopelessness, every obstacle you face appears to be bigger than you. Every challenge you face appears to be larger than you. Everything that comes your way makes you believe that it is mightier than you; better than you, stronger than you, more powerful than you; and has the ability to take anything you desire away. But when you realise you have power, when you master The Master Key of Influence, you will be able to overcome procrastination in yourself and others. A “no” will turn to a “yes,”, and you will wonder where to sign. For you have figured out how to create an environment that compels people to feel like doing the things that are in their own best interest. That is the master key to influence.
Your generation and the entire world will be impacted and influenced by you. You can proceed with your goals now that you understand how to create an environment that inspires anticipation; encourages innovation, and motivates action. Shake the things that are susceptible to shaking so that only the things that cannot be shaken remain by the application of wisdom. The only person who can stop you from being a person of value who influences their generation and peers is you. So what are you waiting for?
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