How Your Decisions Make You Live.

How your decisions make you live. “I have set before you blessings and curses, but I advise you to choose life so that you and your offspring may live.” The key insight here is that our decisions do not affect us alone. Whatever choice you make influences your life and the lives of everyone in your care—biologically, spiritually, and sociologically. Choose life so that you and your descendants may thrive. Our decisions have consequences that ripple out to those connected to us. Choices shape destinies; this is not merely a sociological cliché. Our destinies are influenced not only by Yahweh’s will but also by our choices.

In our modern world, progress occurs rapidly and is based on our choices. Our world consists of people who make various decisions throughout their lives. Some people are old and celebrate their choices together, while others regret their decisions. When Yahweh created humanity as the pinnacle of His creation, He bestowed seven gifts upon them, one of which is the power to choose. From the moment Yahweh granted humans the ability to make choices, it became scripturally incorrect for Him to impose His will on them, even if it meant sacrificing their eternal salvation.

Yahweh grants you the freedom to choose, reflecting the depth of His passionate love for you. He does not stand in your way, saying, “No, I love you too much to let you make this choice.” Instead, He observes as you navigate your path, fully aware that you may not understand the consequences of your actions. His heart aches at the thought of you heading toward destruction, yet He allows you to make your own decisions.

Your Choice

Yahweh has given you the power to make choices that influence your eternal destiny. It is essential to understand that while Yahweh will not interfere with your decisions, you cannot determine the consequences of those choices. You can only make choices, and those choices will shape the outcomes—whether good or bad. Unfortunately, many people blame others for their circumstances, including their parents. However, we must recognise that we are responsible for our choices and the consequences.

The weight of your decisions should not be underestimated, as they have consequences that influence your life and those around you. Sometimes, we blame the government for our circumstances. We live in a society where irresponsibility is often celebrated. If my parents had been honest about their shortcomings, perhaps I would have turned out differently. However, we must remember that Yahweh has granted us the ability to choose, and the decisions of others do not solely dictate our destiny. We can guide ourselves toward a path of life or destruction through our choices.

How Your Decisions Make You Live

I want to share a story about two men who were sons of a drunkard. One son became dissatisfied with his father’s lifestyle and led a highly erratic life filled with irresponsibility and a desire-driven approach. On the other hand, the other son rejected his father’s way of living and determined that his life would be different. He sought a serious mentor to guide him and became a highly successful man. One day, the brothers were brought together for an interview. When asked why he had become irresponsible, one brother responded, “Did I have a choice?” He added, “No, it was a justification.”

He was attempting to blame his father for his behaviour. For instance, he believed that his father was the reason for his recklessness. When the other brother was asked what inspired him to become responsible, he replied, “My father was the reason.” The same motivation that led one brother to fail also inspired another to succeed. Decisions shape our lives; therefore, you can choose whether to strive for yourself or live for Yeshua. It all comes down to a choice.

The Right To Choose

Yahweh designed humanity with a unique gift: an independent intellect that allows for the power of choice and decision-making. This concept is beautifully illustrated in the parable of the prodigal son, where the narrative reveals that “he came to himself.” This pivotal moment of self-awareness underscores that it was a personal epiphany rather than an intervention by the Holy Spirit or a consequence of demonic influence. In despair and desperation, the young man reflects on his bleak circumstances and resolves to return to his father.

With a heavy heart, he recognises his wrongdoings and humbly pleads to be treated not as a son but as a mere servant, demonstrating an understanding of his failings and a yearning for redemption.

As soon as he made that decision, his father also honoured it. They met on the way, not inside the house. Decisions are powerful. Some people have created wealth because they were fed up and declared, “In the name of Yeshua Hamashiach, I have discovered from scripture that as a believer, I have the advantage of walking in the blessing.” I have decided that things must change. Some have grown serious about their faith in Yahweh after making this commitment, with the Holy Spirit assisting them. I, too, have made up my mind; my life must count, and I do not want it to end in regret.

I would say, “Be serious in your youth; many elderly people live with regret.” Your life can serve as both a source of inspiration and a warning. Your life may be a key or a padlock based on your choices. If you continue with what you are doing, I will offer my support; however, you must decide to take this seriously.

The Choices We Make

You do not provide food to someone simply because they have a mouth; you feed them because they are hungry. Yahweh challenges us with this truth: our futures are not determined by the socioeconomic conditions we find ourselves in, nor are they affected solely by the disadvantages we recognise. Many young people have not chosen to take their lives seriously; they are merely ageing without direction. The phrase “If I have not prayed, my eyes will not sleep” is a conscious decision. I must connect with this verse through revelation rather than through mere ritual.

Every single day presents the opportunity for conscious decisions. I can commit to filling my mind with uplifting truths and knowledge before I drift off to sleep. I can choose to clear out the clutter and negativity that drains my energy and keeps me from thriving. Each day, I have the power to shape my life into one that is organised and harmonious. This means grooming myself—combing my hair neatly, polishing my shoes until they shine, and embracing personal responsibility.

I will choose to dress in a way that reflects respect for myself and others; no more sagging jeans or attitudes that suggest dishonesty. Starting today, I will take control of my choices and actions. It is time to say farewell to those friends who no longer uplift me.

Make The Right Choice

Some people speak from beyond the grave, even though they may not have the right to do so due to past decisions. Friends, parents, and loved ones can sometimes lead you to make unwise choices. Your decisions must align with scripture to lead a victorious life, so understanding scripture is essential. If your preferences are not based on scripture and do not align with it, there is no guarantee of living a fulfilling life. Some people must come to a difficult conclusion: “My dear friends, I care about you, but your influence on me is not beneficial, and I sincerely appreciate your support.”

You may be devoted to mediocrity, and while I accept your decision, I am not willing to suffer the consequences. Thus, in matters of love, I choose to leave this environment of mediocrity and seek a fulfilling life with Yahweh. One can choose to say, “I did not have good parents, but I will take responsibility; I will not steal or kill.” Decide to pursue a loving relationship with Yahweh and to prioritise your future. Be committed to the choice, never to allow pain to deter you. Champions are those who have mastered the ability to overcome adversity.

Consequences Of Your Actions

People must understand that their actions have consequences, a realisation many seem to lack. What should I be hasty about in life? Consider the implications of not praying consistently for one month. Ultimately, you are free to make that choice, but it is essential to reflect on the consequences. If you are comfortable with those consequences, you can decide. However, if you are not, you should seek Yahweh’s grace. Yahweh is communicating with many of us, and one of the most important decisions you can make is to look up to Him. While help may come through people, it ultimately comes from Yahweh.

It is a decision to stop blaming your uncles and aunts. If you are unhappy with everyone and claim they should feel embarrassed, remember that they may have forgotten about you. I lift up my eyes to the hills; where does my help come from? I may not know where your help comes from, but mine comes from the Lord, who created heaven and earth. You can live a healthy lifestyle; this is a serious decision.

Decisions are less critical than their consequences. Never make a decision that will affect the outcome more than the decision itself. It is a common misconception that once you make a decision, you must live with it. This is not true because decisions are made in a single moment, while their consequences can last a lifetime. Therefore, thoroughly research your options and understand the potential outcomes before deciding. Take the time to do your homework, gather facts, consider all possibilities, analyse your choices, and look into historical information.

It is essential to consult with those who have already made similar decisions and to study their life histories. Gather as much information as possible before you make a choice. Is it legal to ask someone to decide without providing comprehensive information about the potential consequences? In my view, this is both illegal and irresponsible. I want to emphasise that I am not opposed to making decisions; instead, I am against being asked to make them without receiving adequate information about the decision itself and its consequences. Please provide accurate details so that I can be responsible and objective.

Life presents us with many challenging decisions, and it is vital to approach them with patience and careful consideration. Doing what is right is not always popular, and popular choices are not always right. Take the time to make thoughtful decisions and periodically review them. As the saying goes, “There is a way that appears right, but in the end, it leads to death.” It is important to remember that our lives are shaped by the decisions we make. If your life is not heading in the desired direction, it is essential to reassess your choices and carefully consider the consequences before making them.

It is essential to avoid making permanent decisions. Regularly revisiting your choices and assessing your current situation is crucial to determine if any changes, adjustments, or considerations are necessary. This is particularly important because the future is unpredictable, and lacking a backup plan can negatively impact your life. You will inevitably need to make course corrections, as external and environmental changes often lead you to deviate from your intended path.

Learning can occur in two ways: through our own mistakes or by observing the mistakes of others. My late father often emphasised the value of experiential learning, saying, “The school of experience is the best teacher, but the tuition fees are too high.” The saying supports this wisdom, “Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers, they succeed.” Just as you can judge a tree by its fruit, you can evaluate a person by their life decisions. I find comfort in seeking guidance from the Lord through prayer. When faced with decisions, whose counsel do you seek? Do you carefully plan your decisions or rely on your instincts and hope for the best?

I am genuinely interested in learning about your decision-making process. I recommend checking out The Decision Lab—a think tank and platform that offers insights and strategies for making decisions based on behavioural science.

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