How Your Decisions Make You Live.

As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he.

How Your Decisions Make You Live.

Introduction

The intro

 How your decisions make you live. “I have set before you blessing and cursing, but I advise you to choose life that both thou and your seed may live.” The first revelation here is that decisions do not affect you alone. Whatever decision you make will affect you and everyone under your care biologically, spiritually, and sociologically. Choose life so that you and your seed may live. Our decisions have consequences that affect us and everyone connected to us. Decisions decide destiny; this is not just some sociological cliché. Our destinies are decided not just by the will of Yahweh but by our decisions.

In our modern world, progress occurs rapidly based on our choices. Our world is full of people who make various choices in their lives. Some people are old, and some celebrate their decisions and choices together. Some regretting the decisions and the choices they have made. When Yahweh created man as the highest of his creation, there were seven things that Yahweh gave man. One of them is the power to choose. From the day Yahweh gave man the power to choose, it became scripturally incorrect for Yahweh to impose His will on man, even at the expense of man’s eternal salvation.

Yahweh still allows you to choose as passionately as his love is towards you. He did not say no; I love you too much. You do not know what you are doing; you are on your way to hell.

Your Choice

Woman thinking of her choices

How Your Decisions Make You Live

The Right To Choose

Woman making a choice

The Choices We Make

Make The Right Choice

Consequences Of Your Actions

How Your Decisions Make You Live

Life Is Not A Game

The Seriousness Of Life

Conclusion

Think Of The Consequence not Just The Decision.

Life presents us with a multitude of challenging decisions, and it is crucial to approach them with patience and careful consideration. Doing what is right is not always popular, and popular choices are not always right. Take the time to make well-considered decisions and regularly review them. “There is a way that appears to be right, but in the end, it leads to death.” It is crucial to remember that our lives are shaped by the decisions we make. If your life is not heading in the direction you want, it is essential to not only change your decisions but also carefully consider the consequences before making them.

Man reflecting on his bad choice

It is essential to avoid making decisions permanent, meaning that it is crucial to regularly revisit your decisions and assess your current situation to determine if any modifications, adjustments, or considerations are necessary. This is particularly important because the future is unpredictable, and not having a backup plan can have negative consequences for your life. It’s inevitable that you will need to make course corrections, as external and environmental changes often cause you to deviate from your intended path.

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What You Must Do

Learning can occur in two ways: either by making your own mistakes or by learning from the mistakes of others. My late father used to emphasise the value of experiential learning, often saying, “The school of experience is the best teacher, but the school fees are too high.” This wisdom is echoed in the saying, “Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers, they succeed.” Just as you can judge a tree by its fruit, you can assess a person by their life decisions. I find solace in seeking guidance from the Lord through prayer. When faced with decisions, whose counsel do you seek?

Do you meticulously plan before making decisions, or do you trust your instincts and hope for the best? I am genuinely interested in hearing about your decision-making process. Recommended reading – The Decision Lab – A think tank and platform that offers insights and strategies for behavioural science-driven decisions.

Two parties in agreement shaking hands

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As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he.

5 thoughts on “How Your Decisions Make You Live.”

  1. I think your dad’s saying was “experience is the best teacher but the fees are too high”. I can’t remember the context of the conversation but I remember the quote from you about him clearly. I remember it from Acton 84 lane.
    Decisions are central to our lives. The advice on permanency of a decision on a fleeting situation sounds like hindsight. In an average family setting the littlest person is the most important person. Does the baby know that? Of course not. The baby makes the loudest noises over simple things like a little milk. Children in general make the weakest decisions hence the need for adult counsel.
    Make a recording of your son or daughter at 17 and 19 and at 20 years old. Playback that recording to them a little later at 25 or 28. Between 17 and 21 is the time when you are at your weakest and its the time when you think you are at your strongest in decision making. This is when counsel and plans make the most difference. This is the time you need counsel the most and the time when you think you are the strongest position. This is as a rule. There is no rule without an exception. Life can be considered as a series of decisive moments.

    1. jerry.botwe

      Hello Wellie, you memory has not let you down. The quote is exactly what my late father used to say I have just paraphrase it. Thanks for your feedback and I agree with all the points you have made, thank you again for your feedbacks. I really appreciate you.

  2. Hey JOB! This is about gratitude. I’ve done it. 32 days of continual journal-listing as required by the challenge you put forth. Everyday I’ve done a gratitude journal-listing session. Slight problem though. I can’t stop. 14 or 15 items the first day or two. This took me 40 to 45 minutes a day. Now I list 23 to 25 items and it takes me 20 to 25 minutes. What happened? I think I have developed a system or hierarchy. I will do it another 30 or 31 days then call you back. Things are happening.
    First thing that happened to me was to do with over active bladder issues. I started writing and 4 to 5 days it was quiet I had completely forgotten about its existence its like I had deleted a whole line of programming from my system. Then on the 6th day out of the blue I thought about it. I got worried. I hadn’t done anything or so I thought. Then I realized that I was doing some gratitude journal listing.
    I would like to test this technique more and more. I’ll get back to you in a month or maybe two. Its going good so far. Do you have anything to say?

    1. jerry.botwe

      Great news Wellie,
      “The benefits of being thankful and showing gratitude are endless. I have discovered amongst my family and friends who practice gratitude as a lifestyle, take time to notice and reflect on the things that they are grateful for, feel more alive, sleep better, express more compassion and kindness, and even have stronger immune systems. Gratitude does not have to be reserved for special occasions: Sure, you could be thankful for a job promotion, but you could also be thankful for something as simple as a delicious piece of pie. Go ahead and try it now.”

      This was what I wrote, by journaling you have turned your focus away from what is ailing or missing from your life and focussing all your energy on what is right and good. Remember, as a man thinks (focus and deliberate) in his heart so is he. Simply meaning, where your mind goes the body will follow or the body cannot go where the mind has not been. I am now waiting with anticipation your next report. Change your life by changing your thoughts

  3. jerry.botwe

    Thank you for your feedback, I am interested to hear more if you care to elaborate. Thanks

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